We are still at #79 Everyone who really knows me knows I hate waiting!!!
Lauren's room is just about done. It's painted!!! The family room is just about ready for paint. I sanded the whole room, even though the professional said it didn't need it. Sorry Allyn..... He has been a real hunny about all this. He comes, does the work, leaves and I never even know he's been there. And he's not charging me full price. That helps!!!!!! It also helps that he's cute.
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Our official adoption photo
The family dog sleeping in my briefcase
This was the journey of a single mom and her two children adopting a baby girl from Africa. Our precious girl is home and this is now about our lives from day to day.
The Family
Email me
- wog911@aol.com
Why Selamnesh?? Why not Sahara??
So often we go into a situation with our minds made up. We did!! We chose the name Sahara in a Walmart store. Lauren came up with it months before we ever sent in our first application. She was going to be Sahara!!
And she was Sahara...... until we met her, her nannies and her beloved birthmother Bizunesh. I could barely pronounce her name Selamnesh. But after hearing everyone call her by her birth name. How could we change it?? How selfesh would that be?? Her name is the only thing her birthmother can give her, how could I be so cruel as to take that away from her??
Bizunesh and I sat for 30 minutes with 2 translators exchanging our dreams for her beloved baby girl. I could only understand 1 word she would speak.......Selamnesh. The way she said it will ring in my ears for the rest of my life. God changed my heart that day on the bus ride home.
A legal name is just that. How many Henry's, Richard's, Barbra's or Catherine's do you know that use their legal names?? My daughter's name is Selamnesh. Most of the time I call her sweatheart.
And she was Sahara...... until we met her, her nannies and her beloved birthmother Bizunesh. I could barely pronounce her name Selamnesh. But after hearing everyone call her by her birth name. How could we change it?? How selfesh would that be?? Her name is the only thing her birthmother can give her, how could I be so cruel as to take that away from her??
Bizunesh and I sat for 30 minutes with 2 translators exchanging our dreams for her beloved baby girl. I could only understand 1 word she would speak.......Selamnesh. The way she said it will ring in my ears for the rest of my life. God changed my heart that day on the bus ride home.
A legal name is just that. How many Henry's, Richard's, Barbra's or Catherine's do you know that use their legal names?? My daughter's name is Selamnesh. Most of the time I call her sweatheart.
Journey to Selamnesh
Ethiopian time
Our Adoption Agency
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#72 3-11-08
#71 4-7-08
#66 4-15-08
#63 4-25-08
#60 5-20-08
#45 5-23-08
Referral 2:59pm 5-27-08
Court date 7-18-08
Travel 9-24-08
Home forever 10-3-08
#79 2-22-08
#77 3-6-08
#76 3-7-08
#72 3-11-08
#71 4-7-08
#66 4-15-08
#63 4-25-08
#60 5-20-08
#45 5-23-08
Referral 2:59pm 5-27-08
Court date 7-18-08
Travel 9-24-08
Home forever 10-3-08
There are accidental parents , But no accidental children
About the process
They tell us that the process to adopt a child from Ethiopia is about a year. A referral is when they match you to a child. They get a grouping of children, and then try to match a family to the child's needs and the families requests. They take a lot of care in this process. What a wonderful blessing they are giving both us as families and to the children. The dossier is the file that you collect information and recommendations about your family and submit them to the agency. The time frame from submitting the dossier to referral is about 6-9 months. Our process took 5 months. Then you wait for a court date. Then you wait for a birth certificate. Then after the birth certificate comes in correctly, you get a travel date. With our agency, you stay a week. They show you around the area, possibly meet the birth parent or relative. And spend time getting to know your child. You stay at a guest house with a full time cook, and driver. I couldn't ask for a more wonderful agency. Alexa, I owe you so much thanks!
The process
- Desided to adopt a girl from Ethiopia Lifest07"
- Send in Application Sept. 13, 2007
- I600-A Oct. 19, 2007
- Get Home Study done Oct. 24,2007
- Submit Dossier Dec. 11, 2007
- Offically on wating list for a referral Dec. 20, 2007
- Finger Prints by Home land security Jan. 3, 2008
- Received referal for Selamnesh May 27, 2008
- Court Date July 18, 2008
Our official adoption photo
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The family dog sleeping in my briefcase
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Love our children as though it was our last day with them.....
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